I am new here. Thank you Logan for giving me a space to be cranky on the internet.
Here is my first post...
You may have seen that sign from the women’s march floating
around, the one that says, “Remember, white women voted for trump.” When I
first saw that image, it stung. It felt like a betrayal, to see someone is a
crowd of women in the women’s march in what I perceived as an attack on her
fellow protestors. I didn’t see the point in coming to a place of solidarity
and accusing a large group of people of being part of the problem.
This kind of reaction to a sign is dangerous and wrong, and let me
tell you why.
One of my favorite past times is to talk about how garbage and
disgusting men are. They constantly objectify us (and sexualize really
anything), they are dumb, they can’t seem to conceive of what sex is like
outside of porn. These are complaints I love to bitch about. But here is the
thing – there are some good men out there. And the men I associate with, they
know that. They know that I am not talking about them, because they are not
part of the problem.
You see where I am going with this? Maybe you didn’t vote
for Trump, but maybe also consider that that isn’t enough. The fact of the
matter is, white women did vote for
trump, in overwhelming numbers. My own mother did, in fact! We cannot escape
that fact. We have to acknowledge that unpleasant bit of information, and
realize that to many, feminism still means white feminism. If you think that a
black woman drawing attention to the problem of white women voting for Trump is
divisive, then it may be worthwhile to step back and evaluate why you feel that
way. You may, in fact, be part of the problem.
I have read many accounts on Facebook from the perspective
of trans women and POC stating that they felt overlooked (to be an
understatement) and looked down upon by smug white women at the marches. We
need to listen to these stories, and internalize that we need to be better.
We need to rise up to anything that is a threat to ALL
women, not just what affects us personally.
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